I would like to say first off that I am not a fan of Miss Winfrey’s show, and her ideas and my own diverge at myriads of points. Glean from this what you will.
At the risk of being a wet blanket, I do not view Oprah Winfrey’s latest act of philanthropy with the exaltation many have been conferring on to her. Apparently, Miss Winfrey has built an opulent school for South Africa girls, ages 12 to 13 years old, called “the Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy for Girls”. Lush doesn’t quite cover the 28 building complex, with yoga studios, theaters (indoor and outdoor), and beauty salons– paradisical is more accurate. The stated mission or purpose of this school is to “inspire” these girls to elevate themselves and their country out of poverty through “leadership skills”. Miss La Shawn Barber, whose blog made me aware of this, opined, “I think Oprah has done a good thing, opulence and all.”
Others commenting on Miss Barber’s post, like Sharon, said:
“I’m not a huge fan of Oprah either, but I say God bless her for what she has done. I’m sick and tired of the moaning and groaning and class envy in this country. Americans don’t know what poor is anymore. We have so few pockets of real poverty that most Americans think poverty means not having a TV and a dishwasher. I wish more people could travel to third world countries and get a look at what real poverty looks like. I prefer to send my money to places like Africa.”
I, however, cannot help but look at Oprah’s effusive display of wealth as rather distasteful. Generally speaking, I couldn’t care less where a man (or woman) spends his money, but by building a veritable palace in the midst of rank poverty is profoundly disturbing. Everything from the china served at their meals to the thread count of their bedroom sheets were chosen personally by Miss Winfrey– all of which bespeaks an affluence few can even dream of possessing, even here in America.
Oprah calls the school “the fulfillment of my work on earth.” But God is in the details. She personally chose the china and the pleated uniforms, the sheets and the beds—she actually sprawled out on each one to check for comfort. She also insisted that the dorm rooms and the closets be extra large, even though the girls have minimal amounts of clothes. “People asked me why it was important to have closet space, and it’s because they will have something,” she says. “We plan to give them a chance to earn money to buy things. That’s the only way to really teach them how to appreciate things.”
Buy things? With what money? Money Miss Winfrey has bestowed up them? I am quite certain these children, girls 12 to 13 years old, would know how to “appreciate things” in a way we never will, and I am not sure “buying things” would augment their gratitude.
Here is the problem. In a country with very little prospects, and even fewer prospects for women, Miss Winfrey has built this school on the presumption that these girls can elevate their country out of poverty through leadership skills.
This sort of reasoning is what I find objectionable in Miss Winfrey’s view of the world. Generally, it is Nietzschean “Will to Power”, swirled with pop Freudian analysis, and baked with New Age cosmology, which usually come in the form of stock phrases like, “It was meant to be” or “Visualize success”, etc.
Does she really think that these children can go to school for a couple of years and suddenly lead the country out of its destitution? Do compliments and self-esteem create wealth? (”… They’ve never been told they are pretty or have wonderful dimples. I wanted to hear those things as a child.”)
And what about those girls? Once these girls are “educated” for a couple of years, where do they have to go but back to their tribes, back to the poverty that is endemic to their society. In a word, they will be given a taste of what it would feel like to be American royalty– then have it snatched from their hands. Can these girls, then, bear the envy that is bound to trail them afterward by their own people?
(Come to think of it, what about the boys? Personally, I am getting sick and tired of all these props helping women become “equal” with men. Roughly 60% of college students are women and that number is rising. Are we really going to disenfranchise men in the name of “equality”? Don’t these feminists have sons and brothers they don’t hate? If you lock out college, you lock out a middle-class living. But this should be for another post…)
I am not the only one of this opinion.
…many people believed Oprah shouldn’t be reaching back, at least not in this way. The South African government has never said precisely why it pulled out of the project, though it’s not hard to guess. “The country is very obviously poor, and so few children have a chance at education,” says one South African school official who asked not to be identified because he didn’t want to offend Oprah. “It is hard not to see that many feel that what Ms. Winfrey is doing is too much.”
Instead of respecting the country and culture she is trying to help, she blatantly ignores their timid protest. It doesn’t seem from her statement that she has given much thought to the people she’s supposedly helping.
Her response to such criticism is:
“I understand that many in the school system and out feel that I’m going overboard, and that’s fine. This is what I want to do. I wanted to take girls with that ‘It’ quality, and give them an opportunity to make a difference in the world. I’d like to think I have as much good sense as I have money, so that’s a lot of good sense.” [I’ve made things bold print and italicized things for effect. See a pattern?]
Like so many other examples of gross condescension of another culture these past couple of years– from Madonna “adopting” an African girl and Angelina Jolie touring Africa making speeches– this latest example ranks close to the top. To be fair, however, Miss Winfrey’s philanthropy could have been done out of genuine goodwill and charity. And because she IS Oprah Winfrey, it could be the case that anything she does will be visible to the public and can’t help but be ostentatious. I don’t know.
It really is no wonder the rest of the world are envious of us. It is not just in movies, music, and television that we blare our affluence at the world. We also have celebrities getting up close and personal to rub their own poverty in their faces by our excessive displays of wealth.
I really don’t people mind spending money to help the poor. Charity is wonderful! I just wish charity was done more anonymously.
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